The Love Triangle That Just Won't Go Away

The love triangle of teens never changes only the players do. A broken hearted ex-girlfriend, the boy who moved on to the next girl in the blink of an eye and the new girl who is caught in the middle and is blamed for the break-up. Taylor Swift has spent the entire week trying to make Joe Jonas look bad for breaking her heart but in reality she is making herself look bad. Even though Joe may have handled things wrong Taylor is the one who seems to just cant let it go.

Taylor here is a suggestion, you can only make him mad if you show him you don’t care and move on. When you constantly let the world know that you are hurt, it makes him laugh inside. Guys seem to get off on making a girl cry, if he truly cared at all he would have never broke up with you to date someone-else.

Here is a recap of what Taylor and Joe had to say:

US Weekly Taylor said, "They've been together since we broke up. That's why we broke up - because he met her. We don't talk."

Blender Magazine Taylor said, “I think it’s kind of fun to call out your ex-boyfriends. Like why do this if you’re not gonna take the opportunity to always have the last word. It’s so much fun.”

Taylor changes her tune on her blog: “In life and love, you learn that there comes a time to let go and move on. It’s a lesson I learned recently.”

Joe Jonas responds to Taylor’s accusations of cheating and breaking up with her over the phone in 27 seconds via MySpace: Joe says: Several things I will state with all my heart…

I never cheated on a girlfriend. It might make someone feel better to assume or imply I have been unfaithful but it is simply not true. Maybe there were reasons for a breakup. Maybe the heart moved on. Perhaps feelings changed. I am truly saddened that anything would potentially cause you to think less of me.

For those who have expressed concern over the “27 second” phone call. I called to discuss feelings with the other person. Those feelings were obviously not well received. I did not end the conversation. Someone else did. Phone calls can only last as long as the person on the other end of the line is willing to talk. A phone call can be pretty short when someone else ends the call. The only difference in this conversation was that I shared something the other person did not want to hear.

There were later attempts at communication that had no response.

I wish the best for the other person but could not sit back any longer and leave our fans with a wrong impression of the truth.

On another note, Taylor was correct Joe and Camille are dating. They were caught in Mexico. Check out the picture and story in US Weekly.

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Debbie Matenopulos Is Surprised About Her Divorce

Debbie Matenopoulos is surprised and hurt by her husband's divorce filing, which she learned about from Internet reports. That is so typical, she couldn’t get the respect and at-least get a phone call.

The host of E!’s Daily 10 tells People: "I am extremely saddened by the dissolution of my seven-year relationship with my husband.” She goes on to say she believes in trying to save a marriage, "I am not a proponent of divorce and I believe in working things out. So you can only imagine my extreme sadness and disillusionment when I was informed of my husband's divorce proceedings, much like you were, by reading them online."

Matenopoulos soon to be ex-husband Jay Faires, a music executive, filed for divorce, citing irreconcilable differences, on Wednesday.

Faires and Debbie Matenopoulos wed back July 2003 in a lavish wedding. According to the divorce papers the two have been separated since March 2008 and Faires is requesting that the court not award Matenopoulos spousal support.

Kanye West Arrested/ Released with No Charges Filed

Hip-Hop Rapper Kanye West was arrested Friday morning from an altercation with a Paparazzo outside the Tup Tup Club in New Castle. He was later released with no charges being filed. Just this past September, West was arrested for allegedly roughing up a Paparazzo and again was released without any charges filed.

Later on Friday Kanye wrote in his blog: “We back in the lab!!!" he wrote. "I'm cool with the paparazzi. This guy wasn't cool. I gotta work now ... I'll rant later!"

Kanye sat down earlier this week during a rare interview and spoke about loosing his mom Donda West a year ago and how he has been “depressed and down” and blames himself for her death. "I feel like I moved to California, then my mom moved to California, and she did stuff she wouldn't have done if we'd stayed in Chicago," he said. "If I'd never made it in the music business, it never would've happened."

Then he goes on to reflect on how his mother was his foundation: "She influenced me to do exactly what I want to do," he explained. "With my mom's passing, I learned that ... you can't let people box you in. You gotta do what you want to do."

Kanye even admits to being lonely and wishes he had that special lady in his life to help him through the pain of loosing his mom. But he explains that most girls that he attempted to be with have their own agenda.

K. West speaks on being famous and constantly being in the spot light: "I'm an alien. The only place I can be alone is my hotel room — I can't even go to the grocery store," West added. "But don't feel sorry for me — I just did a shoot for Louis Vuitton. Don't worry about me; I'll be OK in the end."

Jennifer Aniston Told Oprah That She is Dating John Meyer (Don't worry Jenn said in an interview John will not be speaking out about their love spats anymore.)

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Justin Timberlake and his business partners are being sued by a former employee at Southern Hospitality BBQ & Bar in Manhattan. The lawsuit claims he (Felipe Ramales) wasn't paid a living wage during the year he spent working there.

According to E! online : “In a federal lawsuit filed Friday in New York, Ramales alleges that he and some fellow employees were not given their rightful share of automatic gratuity charges that were applied to tables of six or more. The plaintiff also says that he regularly worked more than 40 hours a week and received no overtime pay.”

Lindsay Lohan got the shock of her life while sporting a fur at VIP Room in Paris Friday night. Someone busted a huge white load of flour all over her.

The HBIC of Peta Europe issued this statement about the whole thing: "There is nothing remotely 'fashionable' about the torture and death of animals killed for fur. Lindsay Lohan might be able to ignore images of bloody animals skinned alive for their pelts, but we hope a dash of flour will help her rise to the occasion and forsake fur once and for all."

Lohan’s gal pal Samantha Ronson hit her blog to say how she feels about the matter: I'm pissed at the bag of flour thrown on Lindsay last night. Not because I got powdered down, but because the girl who threw it acted like an animal herself. I take that back, it's an insult to animals to group her in with them, my dog is FAR more civilized than that person."

"Oh No She Didn't": She looks a HOT MESS!!!!!

Another Disney Star's Sex Scandal Revealed

Adrienne Bailon of Disney’s Cheetah Girls franchise has her own sex scandal luming. According to reports some racy photos of Bailon were stolen off of her lap top when her computer went MIA for a few hours at New York City’s airport. The photos were for her boyfriend Robert Kardashian (Kim Kardashian’s baby brother).

The following statement was released:

The photos that have surfaced of Adrienne Bailon were stolen from her laptop over a week ago at an airport in NY and sent to several media outlets. These photos were taken in private. Adrienne will be pursuing legal action against the person or person's sending these private photos out. Adrienne is deeply sorry for any pain this may have caused to her fans."

I just don’t understand why this keeps happening. Haven’t the celebs learned from past sex scandals? Stop taking/making naked photos and pictures. That is something you just can’t do because someone is always out to make a quick buck at your expense. If your better half wants to see you like that then tell them to come over and memorize what your body looks like.

Michelle and Barack Obama Had A Date Night Saturday In Chicago:They were seen going to dinner. (Photo: Stan Honda/Getty Images

Britney Spears Son is Going to be OK

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Jayden is going to be just fine. Brit’s people just released the following statement:

"Jayden James Federline was admitted to the Southwest Mississippi Regional Medical Center on Sunday, November 9th. Doctors concluded he had a reaction to something he ingested. He is expected to be discharged tomorrow."

Recap: Britney Spears had to rush her son Jayden James to the hospital over the weekend while they were visiting Brits home town in Louisiana. Reports say that Jayden had a seizure and was kept for observation.

Katt Williams Arrested and Still Makes His Stand-Up Act

Comedian Katt Williams was arrested on weapons charges Thursday night just hours before his scheduled appearance at Carnegie Hall. He was pulled over and the police discovered a hand gun in the vehicle. Williams was able to bond out just in time to arrive an hour late for his comedy act. He even apologized to the audience and explained he had been arrested.

Meet the First Family of the United States of America

Ban on Gay Marriages Causes Ellen & Melissa Etheridge to Speak Out

After the passing of Proposition 8 which bans gay marriages, several well known gay celebrities immediately voiced their disappointment to the media:

AP reports that Ellen DeGeneres said the following:

Ellen DeGeneres says she is "saddened beyond belief" by the passage of a constitutional amendment in California banning gay marriage.

The talk show host said in a statement Wednesday to the Associated Press that she, "like millions of Americans, felt like we had taken a giant step toward equality" by electing Barack Obama as president.

DeGeneres says that with the passage of California's Proposition 8, "we took a giant step away."

DeGeneres wed actress Portia de Rossi in August, following a May Supreme Court decision legalizing same-sex marriage in California.

She contributed $100,000 to fight the amendment on Tuesday's ballot.

DeGeneres asserts she will "continue to speak out for equality for all of us."

Melissa Etheridge blogs on the Daily Beast.com and yells you can forget my taxes:

“Okay. So Prop 8 passed. Alright, I get it. 51% of you think that I am a second class citizen. Alright then. So my wife, uh I mean roommate? Girlfriend? Special lady friend? You are going to have to help me here because I am not sure what to call her now. Anyways, she and I are not allowed the same right under the state constitution as any other citizen.

Okay, so I am taking that to mean I do not have to pay my state taxes because I am not a full citizen. I mean that would just be wrong, to make someone pay taxes and not give them the same rights, sounds sort of like that taxation without representation thing from the history books.

Okay, cool I don't mean to get too personal here but there is a lot I can do with the extra half a million dollars that I will be keeping instead of handing it over to the state of California. Oh, and I am sure Ellen will be a little excited to keep her bazillion bucks that she pays in taxes too.

Wow, come to think of it, there are quite a few of us fortunate gay folks that will be having some extra cash this year. What recession? We're gay! I am sure there will be a little box on the tax forms now single, married, divorced, and gay; check here if you are gay, yeah, that's not so bad. Of course all of the waiters and hairdressers and UPS workers and gym teachers and such, they won't have to pay their taxes either.”

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Arrest Warrant Issued For Mos Def

After an alleged altercation back in August at the Magic Apparel Tradeshow between Mos Def and a photographer; a warrant has been issued by the Las Vegas Police Department. According to Volker Correl who was an official photographer working the event, Mos Def allegedly flipped out and snatched his camera away from him before throwing the camera on the ground. Correl claims to have sustained cuts on his hands due to the altercation.

Mos Def, a well known Hip-Hop Rapper/Actor is facing charges for felony robbery and malicious destruction of property.

Kendra Wilkinson Finally Say's Good-Bye To Hef and Gets Engaged

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Girl Next Door star Kendra Wilkinson has finally moved on and said good-bye to Play Boy’s Hugh Hefner. Wilkinson has announced her engagement to Philadelphia Eagles wide receiver Hank Baskett. Of course Hef had to be the big man and give his blessing. He tells US Weekly how happy he is for his one time girlfriend:

"Kendra Wilkinson has met someone who she would like to spend the rest of her life with. His name is Hank Baskett, a wide receiver for the Philadelphia Eagles, and he popped the question last Saturday. I have given her my blessing and will be giving her away at a very special wedding ceremony at the Playboy Mansion this coming June."

Erykah Badu Tells It Like It Is And Discusses 3rd Pregnancy

After the news broke about R&B/Neo-Soul Diva Erykah Badu being pregnant for the 3rd time; the internet buzz was very negative and criticized her for having another baby out of wed lock. Badu who now will have 3 babies daddy’s (Andre 3000 of Outkast, The D.O.C. and father to be Jay Electronica) became very upset about the blogs and message boards talking bad about her blasted back online and said the following:

"How dare you disrespect the queendom?" she blasted back on her Web site. "I've never been so disgusted in all of my life. ... (You can) kiss my black placenta.

"Every relationship I've ever been in was because I loved the person dearly and was dedicated to us exclusively for a number of years. "The fathers of my children are my brothers and friends. We have a great deal of respect for one another and always will. ... Would it look better to marry and divorce and marry again? Would that be morally correct?"

Well, I guess she told yaw lol.

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Ashley Olsen Is Not Getting Married

Ashley Olsen’s rep denies the latest rumors that she is planning a big lavish wedding to boyfriend Justin Bartha. Olsen has confirmed dating the actor but states that they are just dating.

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Biggest Loser Trainer Arrested For Child Abuse

Anthony Badalamenti the personal trainer on NBC’s The Biggest Loser was arrested Friday in New York. The reality star was arrested for allegedly beating his girlfriend’s 6 year old son with a weight belt.

It looks like the biggest loser wasn’t the contestants trying to loose weight. The biggest looser was the one doing the training.

People, when will we stop hurting our innocent children?

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-Joaquin Phoenix announces that he is retiring from acting to focus on his music career.

"I want to take this opportunity ... also to give you the exclusive and just talk a little bit about the fact that this will be my last performance as an actor," Phoenix told the reporter.

When "Extra" asked why, he said, "I’m not doing films anymore. ... I’m working on my music. I’m done. I’ve been through that," he said on camera.

-Guy Ritchie was out drinking at a pub when a fan of his soon to be ex-wife Madonna threw a drink on him yelling “I Love Madonna; I’m her biggest fan”.

We Knew It Wouldn't Last: DeAnna Dumps Jesse

The Bachelorette DeAnna Pappas dumps Jesse Csincsak. She claims that once the show was over that she learned how different they are. Ummm you mean once make believe play time was over (the show) you came to your senses. It’s not normal to find love with a stranger within a few weeks while it’s being taped.

Jesse was so stunned that he immediately set up the camera and posted the tape on YouTube to plead his case to his fans. He tells the camera he tried his best to make it work. Oh, whatever dude, you’re just making an attempt to be the next Bachelor.

Jennifer Hudson's Sister Julia Blogs About Their Family Tragedy

Jennifer Hudson’s Sister Julia blog's on her Myspace page about the tragic loss of her mother, brother and only son.

“I chose to do what was natural to me and love someone, it cost me my beautiful family, it cost me my beautiful, loving, supporting mother Darnell, my true blue baby brother Jason - I love you baby – and last but never least, my only son Julian, my innocent baby... Julian's soul is at ease. I take comfort in knowing that Julian is with my mother and my brother and most of all, the Lord, and now he's my angel, he's protecting me.”

The police have confirmed that a hand gun was discovered close to wear the body of 7 year old Julian King was found. No word as yet if it is the murder weapon used to kill Jennifer Hudson’s mother, brother and nephew. Police have a theory that the shooter did not act alone. According to reports the evidence is leading them in that direction.

Again the SayWhatNews family sends our prayers to the Hudson family who have to bury 3 of their loved ones this weekend.